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Transition into Fall: Back to routine, forward to growth

  • Writer: Nicole Shigeoka
    Nicole Shigeoka
  • Sep 8
  • 3 min read


As we move into September, many of us feel a bittersweet mix of emotions. While we soak up the remaining sunshine and slower pace, there’s often a quiet pull toward what’s ahead—cooler days, getting back to old routines (or starting new ones), and new responsibilities.

The transition from summer to fall can bring more than a change in weather. It can also spark emotional shifts worth paying attention to. This guide offers gentle, grounded strategies for supporting yourself through the seasonal change.



🌿 Start by Noticing: What Comes Up for You Around Fall?

Different parts of us may feel differently about the shift into fall. For some, it brings renewal. For others, it may trigger stress, overwhelm, or even grief as routines ramp up and light begins to fade.

Ask yourself:

  • Are there harder-to-feel emotions showing up—like anxiety, sadness, or resistance?

  • Does fall feel like a time of longing or pressure?

  • Is there a part of you trying to get ahead of the change?

These emotional cues are invitations to listen, not judge.



🔍 Reflect on the Meaning Behind the Change

Take a moment to explore:

  • What does this seasonal shift symbolize for me?

  • Where does my need to prepare come from?

  • What am I anticipating—or dreading?

Journaling or meditative reflection can help reveal deeper patterns beneath your thoughts and feelings.



🍂 Let Fall Imagery Speak to You

The season is full of metaphorical cues. Look around you:

  • Falling leaves

  • Rainy days

  • Fading light

  • Shifting colors

What emotions do these natural changes evoke in you? Use them as mirrors to explore your own internal transition.



🧍‍♀️ Notice Shifts in Relationships—With Others & Yourself

As the seasons change, so can our relationship patterns:

  • Do you withdraw or seek more connection?

  • Are you more irritable, sensitive, or reflective?

  • Is your inner critic louder than usual?

These shifts are worth noticing—and gently naming.



💭 Understand Emotions as Messengers

Emotions, like bodily sensations, are signals—not problems. Just as hunger signals a need for nourishment, emotional discomfort may be pointing to unmet needs.

Examples:

  • Restlessness → may signal a need for grounding

  • Dread → could mean you're overwhelmed or unsupported

  • Numbness → might suggest burnout or a need for rest



🧘‍♂️ Tune Into Your Body

The body often notices stress before the mind catches up.

Pay attention to:

  • Muscle tension

  • Feeling too hot or cold

  • A pit in your stomach or racing heart

Practices like body scans can help bring awareness to these signals and strengthen your mind-body connection.

Also notice patterns:

  • When do you shift into anxious or numb states?

  • What helps you move out of those states?



🔄 Create Seasonal Rituals to Ground Yourself

Fall invites slower, cozier routines. Intentional rituals can bring comfort and presence.

Ideas:

  • Make a warm drink part of your morning

  • Light a candle while journaling

  • Wear cozy clothes

  • Spend time with safe, supportive people

Simple rituals can act as anchors in times of transition.



🏃 Use Movement to Regulate

Movement can be a power

ful regulator of stress and emotion.

Try:

  • A daily nature walk

  • Gentle stretching indoors

  • Dancing to music in your room

Find something that feels accessible and nourishing, not performative.



🛋️ Adjust Your Environment for Safety & Comfort

Your physical space impacts your emotional well-being more than you might realize.

Consider small changes:

  • Use lamps or warm-toned lights instead of overhead bulbs

  • Add cozy textures like fuzzy blankets or flannel sheets

  • Use scents like cinnamon, clove, or cedarwood to evoke warmth

Create an environment that feels like a safe landing place.



📝 Set Intentions for the Season Ahead

Fall is a great time to set mindful, flexible intentions.

Ways to explore this:

  • Journal or create a vision board

  • Write seasonal goals or weekly priorities

  • Keep a visual calendar of commitments

  • Schedule time to check in with loved ones—and with yourself

Let your intentions evolve as the season unfolds.



🧠 Final Thoughts: It’s Okay to Not Feel Okay

Seasonal transitions can be emotionally complex. If you’re feeling low energy, scattered, or emotionally tender—you’re not alone.

Healing isn't linear, and it's completely okay to feel a dip in mood or motivation. Let this be a time to practice compassion toward yourself, and to reach for support when you need it.


If you’re looking for additional support during this transition, you’re not meant to navigate it alone. Book a session here.

 

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